How Women Are Redefining Intimacy and Dating Standards
How are women today redefining intimacy and dating standards? Listen to this episode with Morgan Hewett to find out! — How are women redefining intimacy and dating standards? My podcast guest, Morgan Hewett, is a second-time founder and Harvard Business School MBA building Devin, an AI powered vibrator + erotic audio experience for women. She […]
How are women today redefining intimacy and dating standards? Listen to this episode with Morgan Hewett to find out!
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How are women redefining intimacy and dating standards? My podcast guest, Morgan Hewett, is a second-time founder and Harvard Business School MBA building Devin, an AI powered vibrator + erotic audio experience for women. She previously founded and sold a generative-AI health tech startup and now focuses on modern dating, female desire, and why women are rewriting the rules of relationships in the AI era.
In this episode:
Why so many successful women opt out of conventional dating
How to tell the difference between loneliness and desire for a partner
The role of technology in emotional and sexual fulfillment
Mindset shifts to date with confidence
EP 711: Morgan Hewett – How Women Are Redefining Intimacy and Dating Standards
Highlights from this episode
What is Devin?
Morgan Hewitt, Harvard MBA, is the founder of Devin (AI-powered vibrator + interactive erotic audio).
Devin: device with sensors for adaptive vibration + customizable interactive audio voice/fantasy.
Target users span ages 30–65; many presale signups from women 40–65.
Use cases include solo pleasure, partner-enhancement, and therapeutic support for trauma survivors.
Dating trends & why women opt out of dating
Increasing numbers of women single by choice; many report equal or greater life satisfaction when single.
Economic independence raises expectations: women now prioritize emotional availability, not just financial stability.
Generational shift: younger men (Gen Z) show more emotional intelligence; older cohorts may lag.
Toxic relationship patterns and trauma lead some women to delay or avoid dating.
AI, privacy, and ethical concerns
Privacy caution: large AI platforms may use conversational data for ads; Devin emphasizes limited/no collection of PII and safe onboarding (use of fantasy identities).
Ethical concern: AI replacing human creators/artists and full replacement of human relationships is troubling.
Devin positions AI as augmentation (self-exploration, rehabilitation, sexual literacy), not replacement for human intimacy.
Practical takeaways for dating & sexual health
Self-knowledge and self-pleasure improve communication and relationship satisfaction.
Tools like Devin can help people experiment safely, build sexual literacy, and practice intimacy (including for PTSD recovery).
Dating advice: be authentic, set boundaries, cultivate self-attraction before seeking validation from others.
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